Mar 18, 2009

My Life's Chapter No. 3

Today, my life shifted to third chapter! 

The part 1 of my life is called 'Learning to walk'.It was till the days of my graduation. Those were the days when I did whatever was told to me by my parents, friends and family. I was a child who learnt everything that was taught. 

The part 2 started when I joined IBS for MBA. This part of my life is 'Learning to fly'. I did whatever I wanted to. I made friends, lived life to the fullest, felt love for the first time, felt pain for the first time too!! During this period, I learnt a lot of lessons about life but not from parents or professors but friends! As far as I see, this is the best time of my life and most memorable too.

Today, I entered into the 3rd part of my life. This part of my life is 'Learning to Care'. Today, I joined my dad's business. He was waiting for this day like  a thirsty land looking at heavens for drops of water. From today my life enters into the phase of taking responsibilities. 

I have a mixed feeling today. At one side, I feel pain of getting separated from the college life during which the D5 was my home, friends were my family, assignments were my routine, exams were my entertainment days, classes were my TV channels, Raju's Shop was my kitchen and white house was my restroom. On the other hand, I feel elated with the feeling of being with parents again! I don't understand how to express this feeling. 

The only thing I know is that I feel like I lost something and gained something and on either transaction, I had no control. 

18 comments:

jack said...

hey i can understand every feeling attached with each and every word in this post, an era has to end for another to beginning... as you rightly said certain transitions are not in our control so what we can do is live each and every moment of what ever life brings to us.. and all is never lost, we will always be there no matter what you do,where ever you are...
i will still shout on you..not physically but yes on the phone :)
certain things like our friendship are forever, no matter what transitions come in life..

so embrace this new chapter, all the best.. go for it..
you have it in you... just rock and roll ;)

take care...
god bless you

Navchawla said...

hey bro..thanx for all the support that u have given whenever I needed..i know that wherever we are, our bonding would never loose its strength. In reality, only this motivator has kept me going bro!!!

Rakesh Vanamali said...

I know exactly how this feels! For a while, you will not be able to fathom the change and the routine, but things will fall into place!

I'm glad you view life with a very wide perspective......Wishing you success always!

Unknown said...

Hey Naveen ,Welcome to the 3rd Chapter of ur life. I wish this chapter will b more joyful ,colourful and eventful to you than ur previous ones. And I also wish that you soon open the 4th chapter of your life which will be your married life. And Plz be remain what u r, bcoz that makes u most loving person of the world.

Navchawla said...

@rakesh
Thanx for ur wishes..I also understand that it would take some more time to accept the changes but I would be able to adjust...it's just that it is very hard to believe that from within!!
But what can we do? Life's like that only..change is inevitable n that's what makes it exciting :)

Navchawla said...

@navin..
Hey thanx bro..for all ur wishes n loving me as I am
Of course m gonna be the same loving person whom u have seen..even I can't help it :P
Well I guess we all would have to wait longer for the fourth chapter..let us enjoy the third one first before awaiting for the fourth ;)

Lakshmi, In a Tryst with Understanding said...

hi all the best in ur venture.... and also keep blogging!!!

Navchawla said...

thnx for all ur wishes lakshmi...
keep visiting n commenting...ur comments motivate me to write

Psycadellic Tuhin said...

Naveen, i guess acceptability is a virtue that every individual at some point of time realizes throughout his life, and yes brother, u have entered a new saga, things around you would change, itll be different.

But, dude, our friendship will remain as it has been, forever.
GodBless.

Cheers,

Tarun.

Navchawla said...

hey bro..i agree..acceptability gives you realization of many virtues like patience, satisfaction, happiness and contemplation

I know dude..u all gonna be wid me foreva..this keeps me goin..BTW..now its ur time to realize tht u gettin older..need to get married ;)

Mohita Saxena said...

Besties for the future, Naveen.
I am sure,eventually you will come out with flying colours.
And don't bother about your friends,you would find them standing by your side,throughout your life!

Navchawla said...

@ Mohita..
thanx for ur wishes :)
I am sure tht my frenz would be cloe to me whenevr i need thm...the only pain tht i feel is of the sudden change that has taken place in my life..i m sure i would cope with this situation..but with time!!

Anonymous said...

All the best dude !!! Do your friends and family proud :)

Navchawla said...

thanx prats...keep visiting :)

Anonymous said...

wow! my college is getting over too.. :( this made me sad.. :(

Tan said...

Life unfolds itself and does so very frequently... I can relate to your thoughts here ... thanks for sharing :)

I'm still enjoying my vacation. Spent sometime in writing this story. want you to read it and tell me how it is. Hope you like it.

Mistake: A Scary reason @ Thus Wrote Tan!

PULKIT said...

very expressive!
and nostaligic at places too!!

regards
PULKIT
(http://19goes20.blogspot.com)
VISIT My blog too... hope ul like it

Rakesh Vanamali said...

Redefining Oblivion wishes you a Very Happy, Healthy, Prosperous and Purposeful 2012, and beyond.